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Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Strengths & Weaknesses of an ENFP

I am :

very expressed extrovert
very expressed intuitive personality
distinctively expressed feeling personality
distinctively expressed perceiving personality

Interestingly enough, ENFP's only make up about 3% of the population. Anyway, here are some strengths & weaknesses... I find it interesting but then I'm biased.. what personality type are you?


General: ENFPs are both "idea"-people and "people"-people, who see everyone and everything as part of an often bizarre cosmic whole. ENFPs have a great deal of zany charm, which can ingratiate them to the more stodgy types in spite of their unconventionality. They are outgoing, fun, and genuinely like people. As SOs/mates they are warm, affectionate (lots of PDA), and disconcertingly spontaneous.

ENFPs have what some call a "silly switch." They can be intellectual, serious, all business for a while, but whenever they get the chance, they flip that switch and become CAPTAIN WILDCHILD, the scourge of the swimming pool, ticklers par excellence. Sometimes they may even appear intoxicated when the "switch" is flipped.


Strengths

As an ENFP, you have gifts that are specific to your personality type that aren't natural strengths for other types. By recognizing your special gifts and encouraging their growth and development, you will more readily see your place in the world, and be more content with your role.

Nearly all ENFPs will recognize the following characteristics in themselves. They should embrace and nourish these strengths:

· They’re exceptionally perceptive about people and situations. They’re often able to quickly and accurately assess where someone is coming from.

· They accept and value people as individuals, and are strongly egalitarian. They believe that individuals have the right to be themselves, and are very tolerant and accepting of most people.

· They’re often deep and intelligent, and may be quite brilliant in their ability to tie things together. They’re wired to look for connections in the external world, and so they may mentally put things together more easily than others.

· Their interest in understanding the world usually makes them in tune with what’s socially acceptable and what isn’t. This may help them to be popular and likeable.

· They’re highly creative. This ability may be used in an artistic way, or may be used to generate ideas and new ways of thinking.

ENFPs who have developed their Introverted Feeling to the extent that they apply judgement to all of their perceptions will enjoy these very special gifts:

· They will have the ability to follow through on projects they’ve begun.

· They will be less gullible and malleable, and generally more able to discern between “good” and “bad”, rather than accepting everything without question.

· They may be highly artistic.

· They will have the ability to focus and concentrate deeply on tasks. This enhanced ability to think and process information internally will make them more capable on many levels.

· They will balance out their desire to meet new people and have new experiences with the desire to put their understanding to use in some way.

· They will find more meaning and purpose in their lives.


Weaknesses

An ENFP may show some or all of the following weaknesses in varying degree:

· May be vulnerable to schemers and con artists.

· May get themselves into dangerous situations because they’re too eager to push the envelope of their understanding, and not willing to apply judgement to anything.

· May feel intense anger towards people who criticize them or try to control them. But will be unable to express the anger. Left unexpressed, the anger may fester and simmer and become destructive.

· May develop strong negative judgements that are difficult to unseed against people who they perceive have been oppressive to them.

· May get involved with drugs, alcohol, or promiscuity, and generally seek mindless experiences and sensations.

· May skip from relationship to relationship without the ability to commit.

· May start projects but be unable to finish them.

· May be unable to stick to a career or job for any length of time.

8 Comments:

  • At 11:55 AM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Nick said…

    INTJ - Although in the past I have been ENTJ

    In a team environment, the INTJ can contribute by:

    - challenging the status quo
    - leading the team to a greater understanding of the concepts and principles involved
    - finding ways to overcome apparently insurmountable difficulties
    - developing and maintaining a sense of direction in the team's work
    - observing and understanding the way the organisation works, and leading the team to take appropriate action
    - producing work to a high level of quality
    - ensuring that ideas and vision are translated into action

    The potential ways in which an INTJ can irritate others include:

    - being single-minded or stubborn
    - not taking sufficient account of current realities
    - not expressing appreciation for the contributions of others, particularly where it hasn't been fully competent
    - not delegating

    Hmm, scarily reminds me of me.

     
  • At 12:38 PM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Giggleworthy said…

    funny that ....

     
  • At 12:41 PM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Imelda said…

    Hey Giggle, do you realise just how rare us ENFPs are? Just as well, probably, coz the world couldn't handle too many of us.

    We MUST do that drink when you get back to Oz.

    xxx

     
  • At 2:07 PM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Giggleworthy said…

    LOl - you are right, the rest of the world needs to evolve a little more before they can handle us en-mass!

    You better believe it !

     
  • At 7:35 PM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Nick said…

    Good golly - you and Imelda in the same room - mmm, heaven.

     
  • At 10:11 PM, March 01, 2006, Blogger Imelda said…

    Nick, you wouldn't get a word in!

    Giggle, I found this additional quote about ENFPs on someone's blog the other day. Wish I could remember the link.

    Warmly enthusiastic and imaginative. See life as full of possibilities. Make connections between events and information very quickly, and confidently proceed based on the patterns they see. Want a lot of affirmation from others, and readily give appreciation and support. Spontaneous and flexible, often rely on their ability to improvise and their verbal fluency.

     
  • At 8:55 AM, March 02, 2006, Blogger Giggleworthy said…

    Hahaha - yep, allllllll right - particularly improvisation... improvisation is a wonderful thing so far as I am concerned!

     
  • At 12:50 PM, March 02, 2006, Blogger Imelda said…

    Improvisation is my middle name. And Spontaneity.

     

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